Recieved from Werewolfchick777. Now let's see what happens

Your Existing Situation

"Insecure with himself, needs stable roots and emotional security. Seeking an environment which provides comfort and few problems, but is reluctant to put any effort or energy into it." (Trollols ...)

Your Stress Sources

"His current situation or relationship is not up to par, but cannot improve it without help. Hides his vulnerability by holding back affection or being overly expressive. The relationship may be depressing, but the fear of losing too much keeps him around. He wants to be independent and free, but fears the future will be just as disappointing. His situation leaves him sensitive and impatience, seeking a quick escape. His restlessness may destroy the ability to concentrate(1)."

Your Restrained Characteristics


"Emotionally withdrawn, feels forced to make compromises(2) which makes emotional attachments difficult."

"Current situation makes him feel unable to prove himself, but tries to make the best of things."(3)

Is bothered when his needs and desires are misunderstood(4) and he feels there is no one to turn to or rely on. His self-centered attitude can cause him to be easily offended.(5)

Applies tough standards(6) to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection(7) in his sex life.(8)


Your Desired Objective

"Not a team player and is unwilling to be involved in most activities(9). In the past he was over involved and now emotionally drained. Due to his fear of over involvement, he now chooses to remain uninvolved with the activities around him.(10) "

Your Actual Problem

"Current situation leaves him feeling anxious and restless, producing large amounts of stress and tension. Attempts to escape by appearing at peace and refusing to appear involved or interested."

Your Actual Problem #2

Must protect himself from outside influences or he risks losing his independence and having restrictions placed on him. He wishes to be left alone.(11)

The answers to all the numbers

(1): No that's not my fault - it's the way i was born! Fidgity, restless, no end to energy! Concentration is achieved through interest
(2): I'm the Big brother with two sisters - Often I AM the one to make comprimises because i'm older and more mature. >_<
(3): ....
(4): you try living in a box playing video games all day and see if your family or anyone really understands you.
(5): Misunderstandings usually mean mix ups which means I often look out for me or often no one else will. Believe it; i was even forgottan for dinner ... twice.
(6): You try living in Utah and being part of the prodominant church and see if you don't have "high" (= tough) standards.
(7): Don't get me started on perfection unless you want to hear how nothing is perfect, litterally.
(8); What? I'm supposed to have that? Hmm. Well, i'll pass on that for a while yet, thank you.
(9): I'm a computer nerd! Anti-social is my middle name ... actually it's Edward but you get the idea.
(10): honestly, has anyone heard of the Boy Scouts of America? It's tied in so tightly with the Church around here - you're involved whether you like it or not. So now i'm 18 and i choose not to.
(11): So i'm doomed to be a hermit? Cool, I don't have to worry about Note #8 then. ^_^